Thursday, October 9, 2008

after 3 broken hole punchers and 10 hours of labor.....

so we started assembling the programs on Tuesday of this week..... and let me just tell you... after 2.5 BROKEN HOLE PUNCHERS, 10 hours of labor, 280 pieces of card stock folded, 2240 punched holes, 280 ribbons cut & tied into knots..... they are FINISHED!!! even though they took longer to make than i thought they were going to... i'm glad we put that much effort into them... i like how they look and they are definitely my style and being a graphic designer, i couldn't just have a plain program... i had to add my little creativity to it! =)  so, i hope those that come to the wedding enjoy them!

and......

if anyone is wondering WHY there were 2.5 broken hole punchers, let's just say ONE PERSON - (aka BUD) - tried to help out and make my life a little easier by filing down one that was sticking, but he filed it down just a little TOOOOOO MUCH and then ANOTHER PERSON - (aka Matt) - got a little greedy and tried to do all 7 white pages at the same time and bent it.  He actually bent 2 of them, but got one back working again!   And where was my dad in all this?   STAYING VERY FAR AWAY because after all these years.... he knows better than to get involved! Hahaha! (I love my Dad!!!)

Monday, October 6, 2008

it's been awhile....

welp, it's been quite a while since i wrote on here.... and the reason for that is because time is just FLYING BY. we have had some weeks where we see each other quite often, but lately, matt has been having to be out of town a couple of nights during the week. the weekends have been filled with different stuff.... wedding stuff, a date night, oktoberfest in grant park and being with family.


last weekend we saw the movie "FIREPROOF".... everyone should go see that... it is an amazing movie out in the theater about marriage, our relationship with God in context of our marriages and God's love for us and our love for Him. It was great and i recommend it to ANYONE.... single, dating, married.... everyone..... it's great!


last weekend we also had bud's 23rd b'day party. and also my mom, dad, matt and i trekked downtown to go take some photos that we are going to need for the wedding.

this past weekend we had oktoberfest all weekend.... we saw a lot of people we haven't seen in awhile.... watched a lights parade, saw some fireworks, got a little chilly and then warmed up at the beer garden! =)

as far as the wedding planning and all that comes along with the party that is going to happen... we have made some progress. all the favors are put together, ready to go to the reception hall. (my mom organized a night were all the girls that could, came over for dinner and helped us put the favors together, stuffing and tying bows!!! what a fun, relaxing night of food & friends!). then also the programs are printed- ready for assembly, place cards are coming along slowly (i'm not going to totally give away what we are doing with those....), i had my final dress fitting, i had my trial hair & makeup done and am very excited about all that... all the little details seem to be a continuous flow of thought, but i don't think that will stop until the day before the wedding! ;-)

everyone keeps asking if we're ready... are we getting nervous? my response to that is..... "We're ready to have it tomorrow......" The driving back and forth, the planning, we've had our fun of that... but now it's time to move on to something different. Something MUCH BETTER!! =) we are VERY EXCITED about our honeymoon and going on vacation together. some of you may know, some may not... but matt and i are going to HAWAII for our honeymoon. we are so super excited at the chance to go there and just soak up that hawaiian sun! we have a helicopter ride booked, a luau bought for us (by my wonderful attendants!!!!) and just a HUGE amount of stuff to choose from to do..... well, besides, just lying around on the beach and enjoying each other's company. i am looking forward to actually reading a WHOLE book.... something i have missed doing for a very long time.

this weekend will also be busy.... but a good busy!!! friday night matt and i will get to have our last DATE NIGHT before we are actually husband and wife!!!!!! so dinner & a movie sound great to me!!!!! matt's bachelor party is saturday.... i'm sure all the guys will have fun doing their thing! and while matt is out with the boys, i have a wedding of a college friend to go to!
i'm sure I just probably bored you with dumb details, but right now... it's kinda crunch time and i'm feeling that the only stinken thing i can think about is the wedding..... it will be nice to be able to not have to think of the next detail i have to make sure is put together!! =)
1.5-ish weeks and counting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, September 25, 2008

i know... i'm a slacker!

sorry i've been slacking....
things have been getting a little more crazy around here.


Thursday, September 18, 2008

it's hitting me....

it's starting to hit me again. and to stress me out a little more and more each day.
a lot of things are handle or are planned to get handled at a later date, but i just want
everything to be planned now and for the day to be here.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

A weekend apart...

1. Matt's weekend....
Matt and 3 friends (Raloff, Prairie & Dillman) were supposed to go to Houston for their annual CUBS weekend, but Hurricane Ike kinda put a little different twist on that plan. So after finding out that they wouldn't be able to fly in to Houston Friday night to even have a chance to see the Cubbies play on Saturday..... they thought "really hard" about what they could do with their extra day! So, 3 out of the 4 guys decided to drive down to Nashville to visit a friend from high school, Mike Bergman. They left late Thursday night and had, what SEEMS to me, a very good time! (but i won't go into detail....) So after a fun night in Nashville, they headed back up to Chicago to find out that the Cubs games were moved to Miller Park in Milwaukee, so they packed up and headed up there Sunday morning to catch the game at night. Who knew that they would be SO LUCKY to be at THE GAME where Carlos Zambrano had a NO HITTER..... something that hasn't happened since 1972!!!!! With all the not knowing what was going to happen with the games and if they were actually going to see them play or not..... that was a GREAT way to make up for it all!!!!!!! (And let me just say... I'm not a CUBS fan.... but I did watched the WHOLE GAME and it was AWESOME!)

2. Jenni's weekend....
Saturday night.... I had my BACHELORETTE PARTY! Ash & Becca put together an awesome Hawaiian themed party!!!!! We started out at Becca's and then the party bus picked us up to go for pizza and then out to Norridge to go blacklight mini-golfing (maybe more photos to come! i don't have photos from everyone that took 'em!)

Of course the rain that we were getting put a very tiny damper on things... but you can't control the weather!!!!!! I had a great time with my girlfriends and got a lot of GREAT gifts that Matt will hopefully love!!! =)


(all the girls) 













(me & jimmy - the bus driver) 

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Is it here yet???

IS IT HERE YET?


My grandma Stouwie told me today that "I'm ready.... you can get married anytime now!" And of course I had to tell her.... "Grandma, we're ready too, can you be there next weekend!"

We are getting to the point where we are just ready for it to be here! As much as this whole driving back and forth, taking naps before we drive home, and saying good-bye to each other all time is OH SO FUN, we are READY for that to be over!!!! =)

We had our last and final shower this past Saturday! Matt's Hoekstra aunts did a great job putting together a nice shower for us! Great company, great food and we got a lot of great presents! We are so blessed to have 2 wonderful families and also friends that care so much for us and love us even more! So, thank you for that!

The rest of the weekend was pretty busy. Before we had the wonderful pleasure of going back to the same restaurant as the Hoekstra Shower a little later on that night for a 60th anniversary/Retirement Party... I re-organized some of the shower gifts, getting it ready for this week when the moms and i organize and clean matt's kitchen and put all the new stuff into his cabinets!!!!! And while I was doing that... MATT (my WONDERFUL LOVE) put together shelves that I have been bugging him to get us for the basement to put all our extra crap on!!!! I am so thankful for him doing that. Then it was time to go the B'day/Retirement party for Uncle Chuck...... again, great food and wonderful company. It was a fun packed day!

Sunday, was Kyle's 1st B'day Party (my nephew). Here are 2 photos..... (one is the RIDE-ON Fire Truck me, matt, & bud gave him.... and the other is a photo of him not wanting to eat his cake after matt & bud forced his hands into the cake!)
And I can't wait for later this week!!!
Tuesday: I have a 1/2 day of work and I get to have another DRESS FITTING and then when that's done, I will be heading out to Matt's to start getting ready to "tear apart" his kitchen on Wednesday!!! Can you tell I'm really excited about doing this!??!
Wednesday: I have the whole day off to RE-DO Matt's kitchen
Saturday: BACHELORETTE PARTY!!!!!! It is ALLLL a surprise to me and I can't wait for it...


(one sad thing though.... Matt is going to be gone this weekend! =( But he'll be having just as much fun as i will be!!!!! He will be in Houston with his buddies for their annual CUBS weekend!!!! They pick one weekend, a different stadium every year to go see the CUBS play!!!!)
Well, that's all for now... I hope everyone had a great weekend!
We love you all!

I love you girls....

This goes out to my AMAZING Matrons of Honor!


I can't thank you girls enough for all that you have done for me! I really appreciate you both coming to 3 of matt and i's bridal showers and being so willing to help with everything! We greatly appreciate everything you've done for us!

I CAN NOT WAIT for this weekend. I know that you girls have planned this Bachelorette Party to a "T"... and I am SURE that it will be a fantastic night! You both know me so well and I am so blessed to have such great friends like you two! For anyone out there that really doesn't know these two girls, it is Becca (Tameling) Harkema & Ashley (Olthoff) Vis. They have been my very close friends for a long time. Becca and I have known each other since grade school and Ashley and I since high school. We are (along with Sara (Decker) Jabaay- Panera Group) are possibly the most ORGANIZED group of friends known to mankind. We all make lists and possibly even write lists of things we need to make lists for! Some may think we are crazy (our husbands/future-husband for example)... but that is A-OK with us! We are meant to be friends, FRIENDS FOR LIFE!
I LOVE YOU GIRLS!